You see your reflection. You are happy. They you check your social media. You become unhappy. Sound familiar? .
Our #selfperception has become warped based on others opinions, we don’t see the wonders of our own self and we start to see our reflection through the eyes of others. We let their words cloud our vision. Our eyes don’t see clearly.
. . ➡️ Too skinny. Too much muscle. Stick thin. Blocky. Straight and shapeless. Pancake Ass. Fluffy. Full. Fat. ⬅️ .
I see hear these (have even said these) daily. Used as a sales technique, a self description, or a remark. 🥴
I see others talk about a past version of themselves this way. Describing why the new “version” is “better” because now they are no longer the above definitions. Or I see others, the most damn stunning, describe themselves this way currently. .
Heck, I do it too sometimes. (I’m looking at you my beloved pancake😏)
This is what the warping of social media and mags does to us, without realising we start to believe the opinions of others as being state of fact. We soak it up like a sponge, we assume we are not “good enough” and we live is a place of distraught and mental torment because we can’t quite change our bodies to look like..... “that”. .
Hey 👋 maybe it’s genetics, maybe they photoshopped, MAYBE if they didn’t injure their lower back twisting so hard to show you their glute to waist ratio or pull their pants so high... they wouldn’t look like that either. .
A little more BAM BAM with my wording today but I’m so passionate about it. You don’t have to flaunt your body to gain worth. Ok, flaunt it ALL YOU WANT YASSSSS!! 🤩 BUT.. Because you are damn happy & #BodyPositive wherever you are at, not because you need “social” reassurance. ❤️❤️ Fact is, you are human, your reflection is too be embraced and not shunned. The human body does not have a checklist of acceptance. 💕
Do you agree?
SO MA LADIES 👸 Tie that pineapple bun high and walk with pride, workout for your health and not to walk away conforming to the opinions of society, but to walk away feeling like a stronger and happier human. ✨
Block out the noise⭐️ #GameFace .
📸 - @davey ...