How much different would things be if you could go back in time and do certain events over?
Would you still be with that person if someone had not cheated? Would you still be with that person if you were able to quit (insert behavior here), or take a little less time to get ready, or whatever it is about you that irked your past significant other?
Whenever I find myself thinking about these questions (and countless others), the thought process is always stopped by the same reality: “What is the point of this? You can’t change the past.”
There is no sense in thinking about what you would do if you could turn back time because the fact is that you are not afforded that luxury, and that doing so will only waste your time and strain your patience.
Fantasizing about what life would be like in an alternate reality won’t change what has already been done. All the daydreaming in the world will not grant you the opportunity to go back and say that thing you should have said, and it cannot take back that thing you shouldn’t have done. The only hope is that you walked away from the situation wiser than when you entered it.
We’re quick to label a bad date or a failed relationship as a “waste of time,” when the truth is that the only wasted experiences in life are those we learn nothing from.
It’s important to remember that nobody is without flaws, guilt, or wrongdoing in this life, and it’s even more vital to accept that we ourselves are flawed. It is our flaws that makes us human, and our personal flaws are what make us who we are as individuals.
Once you find the person you were destined to be with, the things that possibly drove a past partner away will be the same things that your current partner happily embraces. If anything, it could bring you closer.
You will never be too much for someone that can’t get enough of you.
Some people don’t really understand what a Gift🎁 it is to be Alive every single day. when you hear someone explain Time⏰ there are 3 Factors that they always use... (Past🐎 , Present📲 , and Future💡). But most people Forget that the NOW is called the “Present” because Every Living day is a Gift💝.
You can’t Change the Past, all we can do is Learn from it. But we can change the Present to change the Future🗣 ...
You can’t change the past. And you can’t take words back. But you can always remember the good times. And be grateful they happened.
I get that you hate me. And sometimes I feel like I do/did. But you were a really good friend to me and I was too far gone to see it until it was beyond too late. And I will always regret it.
I fucked up. We both fucked up. But I had no excuses. I was ruthless and beyond any words that could describe me at that point in my life. And I’m sorry. Sorry we ended like that. Daggers at throats ready to lunge. And I know sorry won’t ever cover jack shit. I just wish you knew how sorry I truly am.
And it the most genuine and authentic way
I really hope you’re happy, I hope life is going amazing for you. And your art is awesome. We’re better off without each other.
But nothing compares to being able to sit in a car for hours on end blasting the Doors and talking shit about stupid people and art projects.