It’s #fearlessfriday y’all!
Being the #Capricorn that I am I’m loyal to those I love and care about keeping them happy. I firmly believe that the foundation of any good relationship is #communication and therefore I always want to be the person that my friends can come to about anything - whether it’s for some unfiltered advice validation of feelings or just someone to provide a listening ear. To me this is the most valuable thing I have to offer in a friendship. And because of this I tend to let my own needs take the back seat
I recently had a #reiki session where the healer told me I need to protect my #energy more to create strong boundaries because I was taking on other people’s emotions as my own and it was creating a lot of darkness inside. This resonated with me because over the past couple of years I have felt like I’ve given more than I’ve received in many #relationships. But I’ve always been afraid of speaking up for myself and declaring my needs in fear of losing the people I care about. I was afraid that what I found most valuable about myself as a friend they would see as the ONLY valuable thing about me and I would then lose value by establishing #boundaries
After that reiki session I decided I would confront my beloved friends about this feeling of superficiality and of use one by one
Yesterday one of these conversations happened and to my unwarranted surprise it went tremendously well. My friend apologized for making me feel like I wasn’t valued said she honestly didn’t even realize it and asked me to be more upfront with her about our #friendship in the future
Of course it went this way and I’m sure the future conversations I have with my friends will be constructive as well. I suffer with imposter syndrome - not thinking I’m worthy or capable enough. What I first identified in the area of my career is now something I’m identifying in other spaces in my life. While this feeling won’t just disappear the mindful conquering of my fear by having open dialogues with my friends will help take me in the right direction. Much love to all y’all and I hope my post inspires you to take up the space you deserve because YOU ARE #WORTHY ! #fearlessfriday
#Capricorn
#communication
#reiki
#energy
#relationships
#boundaries
#friendship
#WORTHY
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Finally in Milan 😎 #reunion #friends #friendship #happiness #Milan #globe #lagrandebellezza #nightlife #instamilano #whitewine #collateralbeauty #reunion #friends #friendship #happiness #Milan #globe #lagrandebellezza #nightlife #instamilano #whitewine #collateralbeauty
Came all the way from the U.S. to meet one of my besties in Korea #친구스타그램 #친구 #영국여행 #영국 #여행스타그램 #여행 #셀카그램 #셀카 #셀피 #trip #travel #England #englandtrip #stonehenge #friends #friendship #besties #selfie #selfca #selfiegram
It’s #fearlessfriday y’all! Being the #Capricorn that I am I’m loyal to those I love and care about keeping them happy. I firmly believe that the foundation of any good relationship is #communication and therefore I always want to be the person that my friends can come to about anything - whether it’s for some unfiltered advice validation of feelings or just someone to provide a listening ear. To me this is the most valuable thing I have to offer in a friendship. And because of this I tend to let my own needs take the back seat I recently had a #reiki session where the healer told me I need to protect my #energy more to create strong boundaries because I was taking on other people’s emotions as my own and it was creating a lot of darkness inside. This resonated with me because over the past couple of years I have felt like I’ve given more than I’ve received in many #relationships. But I’ve always been afraid of speaking up for myself and declaring my needs in fear of losing the people I care about. I was afraid that what I found most valuable about myself as a friend they would see as the ONLY valuable thing about me and I would then lose value by establishing #boundaries After that reiki session I decided I would confront my beloved friends about this feeling of superficiality and of use one by one Yesterday one of these conversations happened and to my unwarranted surprise it went tremendously well. My friend apologized for making me feel like I wasn’t valued said she honestly didn’t even realize it and asked me to be more upfront with her about our #friendship in the future Of course it went this way and I’m sure the future conversations I have with my friends will be constructive as well. I suffer with imposter syndrome - not thinking I’m worthy or capable enough. What I first identified in the area of my career is now something I’m identifying in other spaces in my life. While this feeling won’t just disappear the mindful conquering of my fear by having open dialogues with my friends will help take me in the right direction. Much love to all y’all and I hope my post inspires you to take up the space you deserve because YOU ARE #WORTHY ! #fearlessfriday #Capricorn #communication #reiki #energy #relationships #boundaries #friendship #WORTHY
Thank you all for making my life 10 times better this month Im going to miss you all 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ #sisteract #school #friends #family #love #happiness #friendship #sisteract #school #friends #family #love #happiness #friendship
Una foto cool. . 🔥💖🤘🏼 . Estos dos tan calladitos y yo tan habladora. . #InfinitoTeam #friendship #Toluca #CDMX #Pink #InfinitoTeam #friendship #Toluca #CDMX #Pink